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The social media platforms that control us

October 10, 2022September 29, 2022 by Shay
smartphone showing instagram, facebook and twitter icons

Confession time! And I know that this is going to be an unpopular one for some of you, given that I make part of my living as a blogger using social media platforms. But here we go… I feel deeply that social media platforms—and frankly many parts of the internet—are not our friends. In fact, …

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Categories Blogging, Commentary, social media, Writing Life

My bad penny moment with weight and the Black relatives card

September 26, 2022September 23, 2022 by Shay
close-up image of a medical scale

Despite living in this body as a Black woman for 49 years, writing about racism since the early 2000s, and serving as the executive director of the oldest continuously running anti-racism organization in the United States, I have a confession: The moments that I find myself in a racist exchange are pretty much my “bad …

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Categories Health, Racial and Cultural

Let’s normalize not stealing winners’ thunder—especially Black women

September 20, 2022September 16, 2022 by Shay
white man's face silhouetted by spotlight

It should have been her moment to shine at the Emmy Award show on Sept. 12. “Abbott Elementary” star Quinton Brunson received her first Emmy that night for outstanding writing in a comedy series. And a white man promptly stepped in to step on her moment and steal her thunder. In fact, she was the …

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Categories Current Events, Racial and Cultural
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