Discomfort and exiting your silo is a must

Four tall gray silo structures, in a line, viewed from below at a steep angle, with a lightly clouded blue sky above them

I recently attended a dear friend’s 50th birthday party and it was one of the most memorable nights I have had in years. This friend is a white woman with a multiracial family, and her friend and professional groups are reflective of the diversity in her family. As a 50-something-year-old Black woman living in Maine, …

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Why can’t we be together or, Isn’t that racist?

one brown hand and four white hands on a table

July is that one month for me that is always just personally and professionally chaotic. It’s the one month where I am always playing catch-up and trying to catch my breath. This July, though, had more twists and turns than I could have ever imagined with Joe Biden unexpectedly dropping out of the presidential race …

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From Black Lives Matter to Jim Crow 2.0

overhead view of a spiral staircase in a round brick tower descending downward, with light coming in from small windows on either side

The problem with progress is the assumption we make that it will always continue moving forward—but the truth is that progress requires diligence, attention, and not getting complacent. For over two years, I worked out several times a week with a personal trainer, specifically working on weight training. Late last summer, I decided that it …

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