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Beyond allies and accomplices to concrete plans

By Shay | July 18, 2021 | 1 Comment

Last summer, millions were declaring that the United States had reached a turning point in its painful racial history. The death of George Floyd appeared to be mobilizing people not just across the country but also elsewhere in the world to care about racial justice. In the United States, protests took place in every state, sometimes in small communities with …

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Skip the zero-sum game and shoot for something better

By Heather Denkmire | July 14, 2021 | Comments Off on Skip the zero-sum game and shoot for something better

How do you see the world? Is it an either/or, zero-sum game? Have you considered “both/and?” Recovering from my addiction to whiteness (aka the “culture of white dominance,” aka “white supremacy culture”) requires that I practice living in new ways. I need to build new pathways in my brain, practice being different than I am when I’m swimming in whiteness, …

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CRT: The facts of life

By Samuel James | July 9, 2021 | 1 Comment

Last week, the Supreme Court upheld right-wing racist voting restrictions in Arizona, effectively gutting what’s left of the Voting Rights Act. The ruling was 6-3 and five of those six right-wing justices were appointed by presidents who lost the popular vote. If that wasn’t ironic enough, please remember that this is happening while the chief national debate is about an …

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Calling All White People, Part 55: Maybe we shouldn’t share trauma so widely

By Average White Guy | July 3, 2021 | Comments Off on Calling All White People, Part 55: Maybe we shouldn’t share trauma so widely

TODAY’S EPISODE: Finding the Line Between Trauma Porn and Awareness     I know many of you mean well…but sometimes you need to think twice before posting. Maybe even thrice. What am I talking about? Well, videos of Black people being brutally assaulted or killed by police. Or, for that matter, similar kinds of things. Maybe it’s not police doing the …

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A moment that didn’t last long enough…will it ever?

By Samuel James | June 26, 2021 | Comments Off on A moment that didn’t last long enough…will it ever?

Remember when Minneapolis blew up? George Floyd was murdered, we all watched it, and then Minneapolis blew up. And the world blew up for a moment, too. Just a moment, though. We thought that moment was long enough. A lot happened in that moment. People went out into the streets. BLM signs went in windows. Laws got proposed. Corporations made …

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Accusations of racism: Is it the content or the delivery that upsets you?

By Heather Denkmire | June 24, 2021 | 2 Comments

It wasn’t so long ago that hearing a politician accusing someone of being a white supremacist might’ve made me think poorly of the person doing the accusing. And, like many of the white people I’ve talked with (or seen talking about it online), I know I wasn’t alone in that response. These days, when a Black person or another person …

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With the public face comes some unwanted attention

By Shay | June 21, 2021 | 2 Comments

The past five months have been a whirlwind! When I decided to run for public office, I had no idea how much work even a relatively small local campaign would be, nor did I fully grasp how much my life would change. For those who aren’t local or who don’t follow Black Girl in Maine on social media, I won. …

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Calling All White People, Part 54: Going beyond the little things

By Average White Guy | June 16, 2021 | Comments Off on Calling All White People, Part 54: Going beyond the little things

TODAY’S EPISODE: Sometimes the “little things” distract us from big work    “It’s the little things…” This is a pithy little saying about, well, little things, and it does have meaning. The little things do matter. Certainly micro-aggressions are little things but they build up and matter as constant pokes and jabs steadily wear the victim down. A single small …

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Saying yes to violence but no to vaccination

By Samuel James | June 14, 2021 | Comments Off on Saying yes to violence but no to vaccination

Looking at Denver Deputy Daniel “Duke” Trujillo’s Facebook timeline, the first thing you notice is his cover photo. The photo is of Deputy James Herrera, another Denver officer who died on May 16. There are a lot of mourning posts on his timeline. There are memorial photos of officers killed in the line of duty and passed-on retirees and posts …

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The day before an election—musings on life and the campaign process

By Shay | June 7, 2021 | Comments Off on The day before an election—musings on life and the campaign process

In less than 24 hours as I write this, the polls will open up in Portland, Maine, and to say that I am nervous would be an understatement. I entered 2021 with two ideas kicking around in my head. One was to seriously consider running for a seat on our local Charter Commission. The other was to truly open myself …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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