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Betwixt and between: The delusion of normal

By Shay | November 21, 2021 | Comments Off on Betwixt and between: The delusion of normal

Here in the United States, the season of holiday madness is upon us as our leaders and corporate overlords steadily push us to resume “normal,” even as we globally enter our second year of the pandemic.  At first glance, to casually walk down the street, it’s easy to momentarily forget that we are even living in the midst of a …

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Not guilty. Also, not a surprise

By Samuel James | November 19, 2021 | 2 Comments

Kyle Rittenhouse. Not guilty on all charges. I am shocked, but not surprised. I draw a line between the two. Surprise often leads to shock, but I have often been shocked without the slightest surprise. Something needs to be unexpected to surprise me, but I can see something coming a mile away and still be shocked by its arrival. Like …

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There was just no way to know…oh yeah, there was…

By Samuel James | November 12, 2021 | 2 Comments

Last week’s election was surprising. Maybe surprising isn’t the right word because a lot of democratic talking heads seem to be shocked out of their minds right now. They can’t believe how hard the republicans whooped their asses all around the country. They got all kinds of reasons and theories and excuses. They’ll tell you all about how that’s just …

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Racial wake-up, then the reckoning

By Shay | November 7, 2021 | 1 Comment

Five years ago this week, I gave a TEDx talk, titled “Inequity, Injustice…Infection,” and last night I rewatched it. I wanted to see how it had aged—kind of hoping that it would feel outdated. Sadly, it hasn’t aged. If anything, I wish I could give another talk, a part two that would be called “The Reckoning.” Last year, while locked …

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Calling All White People, Part 57: Is personal racism still worth fighting?

By Average White Guy | October 30, 2021 | Comments Off on Calling All White People, Part 57: Is personal racism still worth fighting?

TODAY’S EPISODE: Taking it personally…racism, that is Personal racism is not the problem. To be clear: It is a problem. A big one. Also, it is a huge contributing factor to the bigger problem, which is systemic racism, institutional bias, and the other big-picture items that adversely affect Black people, Indigenous people, and other non-white people. But personal racism, as …

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COVID and racism have a bit in common

By Samuel James | October 24, 2021 | Comments Off on COVID and racism have a bit in common

Last year 9/11-related illness was the fourth-leading cause of death for police in the line of duty nationwide. It killed 14 police officers. The third-leading cause of death for on-duty police was automobile crashes, killing 19. The second leading cause of death for on-duty officers was gunfire, with 45 dead. There’s a pretty wide chasm between 19 deaths and 45 …

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Black women shouldn’t have to save us…or teach us

By Heather Denkmire | October 18, 2021 | 2 Comments

It’s not the job of Black, Indigenous, and other people of color to teach white people how to undo racism. When a person of color is forced to endure racism directed at them personally, too often they are expected not only to not defend themselves but to also help the perpetrator learn and do better. I’ve written about the unreasonable …

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Education doesn’t solve a problem when the lessons are dismissed

By Samuel James | October 16, 2021 | 1 Comment

I hate the “education” argument. You know, the one that says people would act right if they only knew better. I hate that shit. It’s just so arrogant. And ignorant. You wanna know why? Because what is “better” anyway? “Better” than what? Than whom? Our culture is based on identity not facts, and so is our education. This is true …

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Should I be done, gone and trashed? Or, An educator’s views on me

By Shay | October 9, 2021 | Comments Off on Should I be done, gone and trashed? Or, An educator’s views on me

When I made the decision at the beginning of the year to run for a seat on the Portland, Maine, Charter Commission, I knew that my work as the director of an anti-racism organization—along with being the creator of this site—might be an issue for some. It was the reason why, during the campaign, I didn’t talk about racial issues …

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When race can overcome reality…

By Samuel James | October 5, 2021 | 1 Comment

These days it seems like every time I turn around someone is saying something diametrically opposed to reality. Voices yelling revisionist history and anti-science are suddenly louder than ever. It feels like that, anyway. Of course, it’s not actually like that at all. From history to science and everything in between, Americans have never acknowledged reality. In fact, the country’s …

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Musings on the political and Graham Platner: Reflections on a conversation, Part 1

By Shay | December 13, 2025

One of the greatest gifts of aging is that with each passing decade, you start to realize that the world and the people in it are a lot more complex than you initially assumed. It often means learning that things are not nearly as straightforward and black-and-white as we assume when we are younger—that life …

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Musings on the political and Graham Platner: Reflections on a conversation, Part 1

By Shay | December 13, 2025

One of the greatest gifts of aging is that with each passing decade, you start to realize that the world and the people in it are a lot more complex than you initially assumed. It often means learning that things are not nearly as straightforward and black-and-white as we assume when we are younger—that life …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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