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Credit crisis is real ya’ll

By shay subscriber | October 14, 2008 | 4 Comments

So a while back I wrote about our beat up car we got and how we need  to get rid of it. Only problem is since we are suffering from a smidge of constipation in our cash flow, it means I don’t have enough shekels on hand to buy a car in cash nor do I have enough for a large …

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Got fear?

By shay subscriber | October 13, 2008 | 5 Comments

I have a confession, I am really scared. Scared personally because after almost 13 years the spousal unit and I are going through a rough patch, nah its not so serious that a breakup is coming but for two easy going folks, its been a rough year. I am scared financially, because well the past year and a half we …

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Simple Living, race and class

By shay subscriber | October 12, 2008 | Comments Off on Simple Living, race and class

I know, the title is goofy as hell, but right now no sooner than I start feeling better my allergies decide to act up, so back to hazy head. Please bear with a sista. Anyway this is more of a rant and a chance to stop thinking about the election before I start raising my blood pressure. See, I love looking …

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Terrorist is the new N-Word

By shay subscriber | October 10, 2008 | 3 Comments

Can I just say that after viewing several you-tube videos as well as footage from a McCain-Palin rally that I am really scared as well as depressed by the state of our nation and the folks who reside in this nation. Yesterday, I saw some footage outside a rally in Strongville, OH that showed folks who were very proud to wallow …

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Romanticizing poverty.. no, it really sucks

By shay subscriber | October 9, 2008 | 2 Comments

Thanks for the well wishes, its really boosted my spirits to know that folks actually read this blog. Its my space to blow steam and let loose, its funny because my day gig involves writing but I really enjoy blog writing since I can just write in a stream of consciousness, and not get bogged down with grammar and shit. Today as …

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Healthcare a right, a privilege or a responsibility

By shay subscriber | October 8, 2008 | Comments Off on Healthcare a right, a privilege or a responsibility

Health care has been on my mind a lot for the past several days and it really hit home when I watched a bit of the debate last night and heard McCain and Obama speak on the issue. See, I have a confession to make, I am a college educated, middle class person with no health insurance which makes the …

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Life getting messy

By shay subscriber | October 6, 2008 | 9 Comments

I don’t have much to say today rather I do but not enough energy to write. The kid is going through some health stuff right now so my postings might be a tad sporadic though I hope to get something up at least every couple of days if my energy level permits.  I will just ask that regular readers keep …

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Wow….folks really are simple

By shay subscriber | October 3, 2008 | 8 Comments

Today I had a client meeting with one of my clients. At the end of the meeting, the presidential election came up since they had a board meeting scheduled for November 4, and I replied that they might want to reconsider. Now generally I don’t talk politics with clients since I never know what anyone’s political leanings are, but there …

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Middle-Class Blues… can you feel me?

By shay subscriber | October 2, 2008 | 5 Comments

I been in a tad bit of a funk for a couple days now, I suspect it was brought on by the fact that elder boy who is a high school junior revealed his list of colleges he in interested in attending. I asked him to start with a list of 10 schools, now he is nowhere near ready to …

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Rough times a coming…

By shay subscriber | September 30, 2008 | 4 Comments

So no bailout, and yesterday’s market took a serious dive, I have been working today so I haven’t heard how today ended as far as the markets. I daresay rough and tough times are heading our  way. Now technically its been a tad rough at my house since last year when my former employer and I went our separate ways and our family …

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Change starts with connection: Unplug a little and find hope

By Shay | April 21, 2024

Back in 2019, I spoke at a conference at Illinois State University in Normal. Illinois is my home state, but Normal is not really a place Chicagoans flock to unless it is related to the university. The town is only two hours away from Chicago, but it bears no resemblance to Chicago. It is a …

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Change starts with connection: Unplug a little and find hope

By Shay | April 21, 2024

Back in 2019, I spoke at a conference at Illinois State University in Normal. Illinois is my home state, but Normal is not really a place Chicagoans flock to unless it is related to the university. The town is only two hours away from Chicago, but it bears no resemblance to Chicago. It is a …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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