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The great equalizer

By Shay | July 26, 2011 | Comments Off on The great equalizer

These past few days I was once again reminded how fragile life is and that in reality all our days on planet Earth are numbered no matter how often we tell ourselves hip platitudes like 40 is the new 20, 60 is the new 40 and so on. The hard cold reality is that all humans regardless of race, economics, …

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Got Milk? PMS and Red Tents

By Shay | July 24, 2011 | 2 Comments

Nothing like the use of a stereotype to get folks riled up. In the case of the Milk Board and the Got Milk campaign, a series of shall we say interesting ads claiming that milk can lessen the symptoms of PMS and that women who are suffering from PMS are emotional whack jobs pissed off a great deal of people, …

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The Rights of Kids

By Shay | July 22, 2011 | 2 Comments

In the past year or so in the world of Mommy bloggers there has been a growing chorus of mothers discussing the rights of children. There are many who feel that children are perceived as second class citizens and that such blatant discrimination must stop…immediately. I must admit as a mother I have very mixed feelings on whether or not …

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Somebody is watching you, me and everyone else!

By Shay | July 21, 2011 | Comments Off on Somebody is watching you, me and everyone else!

I am zooming past the blog today, as I type this the thermostat in my abode is currently reading at a toasty 84 degrees Fahrenheit and it’s right next to an open window. I suspect it’s a tad warmer here in this alcove of an office that I have. Needless to say this post will be real short. So are …

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The heat stole my brains

By Shay | July 20, 2011 | 1 Comment

After what is starting to feel like a never ending stream of hot days, this old song by rapper Nelly popped into my mind. However unlike in this song if I take off all my clothes it’s to stand in a cold shower and get a few minutes of relief. Funny thing is compared to most of my friends in …

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Poverty, the ultimate destroyer of dreams

By Shay | July 19, 2011 | 1 Comment

In recent months both here on my blog as well as on Twitter I have been pretty vocal about my need for a career change. After 15 years in the non-profit/human services sector I am burnt out. This is my second stint as an Executive Director but in 15 years this is the first agency that I have been with …

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Adulthood is the goal

By Shay | July 18, 2011 | 7 Comments

I often find myself thinking that in today’s world of hands on, feel good, kids first parenting that there is one key item that many of us are forgetting as parents. The goal is to raise healthy well-adjusted kids who become healthy well-adjusted adults. No matter how it feels at times, kids do grow up. I know firsthand when you …

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Woes of the First World, Woe is Me!

By Shay | July 13, 2011 | 4 Comments

Lovely readers let me warn you upfront, I am operating on little sleep and a wicked case of PMS. So I fully admit in this state, I tend to operate on a maximum level of bitchiness. If that bothers you please leave this page at once and return when I am shooting unicorns and roses out of my asshole. This …

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Birthdays gone wild…the day of the extravagant celebrations

By Shay | July 12, 2011 | 7 Comments

Lately I find myself feeling old, and despite what some say feeling old is not necessarily a bad thing. I have no desire to be young forever, with age comes wisdom or at least that is the I tell myself. So what’s got me feeling old today? Well the girl child is getting ready to celebrate her sixth year of …

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My weekend

By Shay | July 11, 2011 | 1 Comment

This was the type of weekend that reminds me of why I continue to live in Maine…warm days, comfortable nights and plain old fun stuff to do. I have had a few post ideas brewing in my head but with a busy schedule ahead and a book review due by week’s end on a book that is boring me to …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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