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Calling All White People, Part 68: What are we now—Generation Ex-Progressive?

By Average White Guy | June 13, 2025 | Comments Off on Calling All White People, Part 68: What are we now—Generation Ex-Progressive?

Calling All White People, Part 68 TODAY’S EPISODE: Gen X’ers are finding their power…in the worst possible way Maybe you don’t pay attention to the names behind our current slide away from democracy. The people behind the scenes and sometimes very publically in front of them who are dictating policies and plans that are now undoing decades of progress in …

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Beyond our fear: It’s time

By Shay | June 9, 2025 | Comments Off on Beyond our fear: It’s time

Everyone has something that they are scared of. For me, it’s big dogs and driving. Those are my two last remaining fears that for many sound silly, but they aren’t silly to me. When I was eight years old, I was almost attacked by a loose German Shepherd and that incident created a deep and last fear of all dogs. …

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Pride and Juneteenth: Cognitive dissonance

By Shay | June 4, 2025 | Comments Off on Pride and Juneteenth: Cognitive dissonance

The beginning of June, the beginning of Pride—and Juneteenth happens this month as well. In recent years, these events were cause for celebration as we acknowledge and celebrate the LGBTQ+ community as well as celebrating Black liberation. However, at this moment, we find ourselves in a very different reality than a year ago, as the Trump regime has made it …

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Survival reflections from a Black woman, and the joy of “Boots on the Ground”

By Shay | May 28, 2025 | Comments Off on Survival reflections from a Black woman, and the joy of “Boots on the Ground”

For many, the current political climate and trajectory in the United States feels hopeless. How do you survive the boot of fascism crushing our lives, while at the same time raising kids, tending to loved ones, working, paying bills and just trying to live? How do we fit in time for resistance when our system is designed to make survival …

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When it all becomes content and AI, what is lost or gained?

By Shay | May 23, 2025 | Comments Off on When it all becomes content and AI, what is lost or gained?

Back in the “old days” of the aughts, when I started my own website and started writing in 2008—after deciding I wanted to write beyond the work I was doing for local Maine publications—the site was referred to as a blog and the writing was referred to as blogging. In hindsight, the “blogging” that many of us were doing at …

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We are losing the plot and our humanity

By Shay | May 20, 2025 | Comments Off on We are losing the plot and our humanity

A few days ago, I found myself thinking about the 9/11 attack and the people on Flight 93. To refresh your memory, the first two planes that were hijacked hit the World Trade Building, the third plane hit the Pentagon, and the last plane—which was believed to be headed for either the White House or the U.S. Capitol—ended up being …

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The long game, race wars, and building together

By Shay | May 16, 2025 | Comments Off on The long game, race wars, and building together

Eleven years ago, I started my position as executive director of one of the oldest anti-racism organizations in the United States. Founded in 1968, we believe there is only one other anti-racism organization that is older than us. When I came on board, it was seen as a new beginning. I was the first Black person and woman to head …

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Don’t let cynicism get in the way of seeing good work: Project Relief

By Shay | May 9, 2025 | Comments Off on Don’t let cynicism get in the way of seeing good work: Project Relief

Life moves fast and technology over the years has helped to make life move even faster and, while much of today’s technology has added to our lives, the uncomfortable truth is that it has also taken away from our lives. In the last 20 years, we have become a society where information is literally at our fingertips. We carry smart …

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The rewards of being racist to a small child and how we must do better

By Shay | May 4, 2025 | Comments Off on The rewards of being racist to a small child and how we must do better

It wasn’t that long ago in the United States that a white person could say or do harmful things to a Black person—including lie on them to get them in trouble—and, well, there would be few (if any) legal repercussions. Emmett Till, anyone? A white lady lied about a Black child’s actions, and he lost his life for it. I …

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History will not absolve the fearful and frozen; it’s time to activate

By Shay | April 29, 2025 | Comments Off on History will not absolve the fearful and frozen; it’s time to activate

We are rapidly approaching our first 100 days of Trump’s second term and to say that we weren’t ready for what it brought would be a profound understatement. There’s the head knowledge that bad things are probably going to happen and then there’s the reality of living through such shockingly awful things happening, feeling terror, and wondering: “When is someone …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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