Members Home

Black cops, white minds

By Shay | January 29, 2023 | Comments Off on Black cops, white minds

I was six years old. It was March 13, 1979. My father took the oath to become a Cook County, Illinois, deputy sheriff. It was a decision that, for a Black man born and raised in Arkansas under Jim Crow to a family with little in the way of material resources, promised to be the ticket to upward mobility and …

Read more

Turning 50: A Black woman’s thoughts

By Shay | January 20, 2023 | 1 Comment

In a culture that worships at the altar of youth, my enthusiasm about turning 50 (a mere 72 hours from when I’m writing this) may seem strange. I mean, 50 is old, isn’t it? Or at least well along the way to “old.” And who the hell wants to be old? Despite what society tells us, though, as a Black …

Read more

Connections and understanding

By Shay | January 7, 2023 | 5 Comments

Whether you are an active scroller or user of social media sites—or consider yourself too good for the likes of TikTok or Twitter—there is no denying that social media has reshaped our world, down to the very way that we access information. Today’s journalists frequently break stories and find leads and sources on Twitter, or at least they did before …

Read more

Anti-racism work is not charity work

By Shay | December 28, 2022 | Comments Off on Anti-racism work is not charity work

If 2020 was the year of the great racial awakening, then 2022 was the year of the great racial unraveling and a return to the racial status quo. It was the year where even Democrats stoked the flames that calls for defunding the police were leading to increased crime rates (that’s not how it works, by the way) and Joe …

Read more

I have a confession

By Shay | December 23, 2022 | 7 Comments

When my then-husband and I moved to Maine in 2002, the plan was to only be here for eight years. As soon as my son turned 18, and I no longer needed to be in the same vicinity as his father, I would be free to leave Maine. I’d be gone. For sure. Definitely. Oh, how naive I was!  It …

Read more

What’s your anti-racism action plan in 2023?

By Shay | December 11, 2022 | Comments Off on What’s your anti-racism action plan in 2023?

Hold on a sec…putting on my hat. My hat as executive director of Community Change Inc (CCI).  Why am I wearing this particular metaphorical headgear today? Well, just as I was getting ready to write this piece, I saw something disturbing and telling. I was scrolling on Instagram in the morning, when I came across raw footage from outside the …

Read more

Black Girl in Midlife

By Shay | December 4, 2022 | 1 Comment

Recently a disgruntled reader left a comment on my personal Facebook page telling me that I am self-absorbed and not doing anything for the Black people of Maine. Initially, I was pissed off but upon further reflection, I realized that I am in a stage of my life where from the outside, I probably do appear to be self-absorbed. And …

Read more

Are we really supporting Black women or is it lip service?

By Shay | November 30, 2022 | 1 Comment

It has been a little over a month since I announced that after 14 years, Black Girl in Maine Media would be taking a new direction, and I can definitely say that since writing  that post, I have been in a mental slump. A slump so deep that I have been deeply appreciative of the fact that for November, I …

Read more

Being a part of Black-positive media

By Samuel James | November 27, 2022 | 2 Comments

A few years back, when Biden was still a part of “the most diverse group of candidates” to ever run for the democratic presidential nomination, I wrote a piece about him right here on BGIM Media. It was a bit of a warning, I guess. The piece was a lot of facts and links to his history and a bit …

Read more

Gen Z voted to save themselves—good for them

By Guest Poster | November 21, 2022 | Comments Off on Gen Z voted to save themselves—good for them

By Liz Henry My daughter had been planning what she wanted to wear to the polls for a few days: a black “I heart hot moms” T-shirt, fuchsia peace symbol earrings the size of toaster waffles, and wide-leg pants with a purple-ish sheen.  Whatever gets her excited, I thought.  It’s unclear just how many younger voters showed up on November …

Read more

Are you a member?

Be in the know. Members gain early access to new posts.

Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

Read more

Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

Read more

Round Up

A curated list of relevant articles & a peek into what Shay's reading

What's Shay Reading?

Members only get a peek into what Shay's reading and wants to share.

Sample Round Up

By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

Member Only Posts

Are you a member?

This content is available to Members Only. If you are already a member, you can upgrade to the next membership level for immediate access to this content.

Sorry, we couldn't find any posts. Please try a different search.

Private Online Community

Are you a member?

This content is available to Members Only.