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Mama don’t sweat it!

By Shay | July 8, 2011 | 5 Comments

Yesterday I spent the most perfect day with my son. When I talk about my kids, often it is my almost six year old girl. After all, as a young child who is constantly in motion, she is the one who gets most of my attention. My son though is often what I think of as my experiment child and …

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Hotter than Hot, what makes me hot

By Shay | July 6, 2011 | 3 Comments

Not sure about you but it is sure is hot in my little corner of the world. It would appear that July has arrived and with it, some damn uncomfortable heat. Add in a super busy work schedule and dealing with the trials and tribulations of going bankrupt, plus all the other minutia and well it’s enough to make a …

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Real life versus virtual life…the balancing act

By Shay | July 3, 2011 | 3 Comments

I must admit I have a growing interest in how it seems that the use of social media in certain segments of our society is rewiring the very way we make connections in our lives. I have noticed with younger folks like my son and even my brother, that young folks simply do not “connect” the way same my generation, …

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Dreaming a dream and trying to live it

By Shay | June 30, 2011 | 4 Comments

I think at times one of the hardest things I struggle with as an adult is realizing that sometimes our dreams and our reality simply don’t match up. I envy people who are able to live the life of their dreams but I have always accepted that my path has been a tad different. When you have a child at …

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I love me!

By Shay | June 28, 2011 | 3 Comments

I always used to wonder why once a person became middle aged they seemed to get all introspective and start going off in search of meaning for their life. You know the types, they start reading self improvement books, take up new hobbies, maybe even let loose old relationships, etc. Then a real funny thing happened to me, I became …

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A weekend unplugged

By Shay | June 27, 2011 | 4 Comments

Several days ago while relaxing with the Spousal Unit, I posed the idea that perhaps we should unplug for the weekend. In other words, no social media (blogs, Facebook, twitter, etc) and minimal use of our computers. I won’t say that I was met with resistance but I did have to clarify exactly what the goal was, and to sweeten …

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Summer, summer, summer time!

By Shay | June 23, 2011 | 2 Comments

Summer is here! Hooray! After a winter and spring that seemed to drag on summer has finally arrived! With summer’s arrival, I have decided it’s a great time to go on a social media diet. However true to my personality I know if I restrict myself, it just won’t happen. I don’t do well with absolutes or ultimatums even when …

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No, really no reason to be sorry

By Shay | June 22, 2011 | 10 Comments

Today, the Spousal Unit and I got up early to drop the last of the paperwork and fees off to our attorney for our upcoming bankruptcy case. In delivering that paperwork to his office it felt like a shift in my personal universe and my soul exhaled deeply. The decision to go bankrupt was not an easy one and I …

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To emote or not…the parenting edition

By Shay | June 19, 2011 | 3 Comments

Bear with me, as this post may come across as disjointed as I struggle to put into words various thoughts that have been floating in my mind. I often write in a stream of conscience style here at BGIM, it’s intentional as this blog serves as my space to say what I feel I need to say and what I …

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There is no balance, it’s a juggling act!

By Shay | June 16, 2011 | 1 Comment

Today is the kidlet’s last day of school, despite my fears back in August we not only survived kindergarten but the kidlet thrived. I look at her and she now looks so much older than the girl I walked into school back in September. Having been down this road before with the college boy, I know each and every day …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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