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Nope, we ain’t riding in the way back machine…

By Shay | November 7, 2012 | 1 Comment

It is over, so very over and in the end America must accept that she is not the nation she once was, times have changed. Obama will have another four years in office and while many people including yours truly are feeling pretty good about that; for many millions of Americans this morning they are shaking their heads in dismay. …

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This is it! It’s time….E day!

By Shay | November 6, 2012 | 1 Comment

This is it, after what seems like forever today is Election Day in the United State and the truth is I am done, ready for it to all be over. The rhetoric on both sides has reached the point that frankly I feel deep sorrow for our nation. Passions are running high and our ability to be civil to those …

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Social Niceties Aren’t Always All That Nice…by a BGIM fan

By Shay | November 5, 2012 | Comments Off on Social Niceties Aren’t Always All That Nice…by a BGIM fan

Today’s post is written a by a special guest who asked to write anonymously, but believe me this is a writer I just adore and I am honored that this space can be the safe space she needs to tell her truth…   I just got back from a baby shower and my skin is crawling. I need a cup …

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Kicking and screaming to change

By Shay | November 4, 2012 | 1 Comment

Now that we are officially in the middle of fall, I am reminded that in the coming days I will be hitting some major milestones as an adult. I didn’t think they would be that big of a deal to me but as they grow closer, oh, let me tell you…they are huge. First up, in a few short days, …

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Cold hearts, dead boys….what happens when evil festers

By Shay | November 2, 2012 | 4 Comments

I haven’t been in a writing mood this week, several times in recent days I have sat down with the intention to write something and the words just wouldn’t come. This time of year is a time for me when I draw inward and try to make sense of life; it’s a natural part of autumn for me. In the …

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Taking a ride…a musical reflection of my mood

By Shay | November 2, 2012 | Comments Off on Taking a ride…a musical reflection of my mood

  I have always loved Depeche Mode…never let me down! You May Also Like: No related posts.

Surrendering to Sandy

By Shay | October 29, 2012 | Comments Off on Surrendering to Sandy

I am a recovering type A kind of gal. I like to think of myself as being in charge and having the answers no matter what. Which is why I am sitting here on a day that was packed full of activity, typing a blog post because it turns out I am not in charge. Like millions of others who …

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Post racial America was just a dream…the return of hate

By Shay | October 28, 2012 | Comments Off on Post racial America was just a dream…the return of hate

Memories are short, then again thanks to technology we are living at warp speed. Captain Kirk would be rather impressed at our array of gadgets and while we still haven’t quite made it to Jetsons style living. The world we now live in is a vastly different place than it was just 20-30 years ago. All of this fast paced …

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Quieting my mind…reflections on a week of yoga

By Shay | October 26, 2012 | Comments Off on Quieting my mind…reflections on a week of yoga

We live in a world where busy is king and many of us worship at the altar of multitasking. I know personally there are times when I feel almost as if I am a slacker when I admit that I need regular down time and that to be honest too much “busy” makes me feel out of control. For so …

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Spiderina Witch…a review

By Shay | October 26, 2012 | 1 Comment

Prior to last year, this little space had a very small readership and was virtually unknown but then I appeared on “that” list of Mom bloggers and bam! Suddenly my inbox was filled with all sorts of offers to review items and promote products and programs. Initially it was pretty exciting but after receiving items that I wouldn’t suggest to …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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