Members Home

Got to revisit the dog issue

By shay subscriber | March 18, 2010 | Comments Off on Got to revisit the dog issue

This is a reprint of a post that I did back in 2008 when I first started blogging. I got a fair number of emails about it since I sounded like an ass to some degree but I stand by what I wrote. What inspired me to bring this back up is that earlier today I was checking out a …

Read more

Poverty is the new Black

By shay subscriber | March 17, 2010 | Comments Off on Poverty is the new Black

Times are tough, during this never-ending great recession its hard to find anyone who has not either been affected directly or knows someone who is going through hard times. Even folks who are still working and earning decent money have been rethinking how they had been living and cutting corners much to the irritation of our national economy. After all …

Read more

Struggles of a young Black Man & the Great Recession

By shay subscriber | March 15, 2010 | Comments Off on Struggles of a young Black Man & the Great Recession

Today’s post is actually an email that my brother who is a tad younger than me sent. Unemployment rates are high as hell and if you are Black its even worse. I thought what he wrote reflected the struggles that many are facing and in some ways captures the angst of many who were sold a bill of goods that …

Read more

Yikes! We are only worth $5.

By shay subscriber | March 11, 2010 | Comments Off on Yikes! We are only worth $5.

A friend linked to this piece on Facebook and after reading it I knew I had to write about it, since some on my Twitterfeed were talking about this as well. Turns out that single Black women have a median net worth of $5 compared to single white women in the prime of their work life who have a median net worth …

Read more

Frugality on hold

By shay subscriber | March 10, 2010 | Comments Off on Frugality on hold

It’s been a while since I have talked money, partially because I have not been riding the frugality train as hard as I had been in the past. Things have started to look up with regards to income, of course that’s the life of a freelancer. Some years the Spousal Unit has had a great yearas a freelance writer and editor …

Read more

It’s International Women’s Day..

By shay subscriber | March 8, 2010 | Comments Off on It’s International Women’s Day..

I had no plans to post this morning but as I was doing my morning surf while sipping coffee, I noticed several folks mentioning that today is International Women’s Day. In the event you are not familiar with this day, here is a handy-dandy link to get you some basic information on the day.  Initially it seemed like a lovely …

Read more

Mommy Wars in Black and White

By shay subscriber | March 7, 2010 | Comments Off on Mommy Wars in Black and White

I don’t know what’s going on with me but lately my patience has been pretty non-existant. To be blunt I find people annoying me more and more and that lack of patience has played my role in my decision to actively reduce my time online. Don’t get me wrong, I’m here but I am no longer posting daily at this …

Read more

Blame it on the darkies

By shay subscriber | March 3, 2010 | Comments Off on Blame it on the darkies

It’s Saturday night at the local mall, like all malls there is a pseudo swank jewelry store selling diamonds, gold and other treats. It’s no Tiffany’s but for the area it fits the bill. So you are working at this shop which is located in a fairly homogenous area where there aren’t a great deal of people of color. What walks in? …

Read more

Getting Your Kid into College

By shay subscriber | February 28, 2010 | 6 Comments

It’s that time, a time I knew would one day come but I guess I never quite believed it because BAM! It’s here and damn its got me on edge. My son affectionately referred to as elder boy in this blog is a high school senior and we are now in the midst of that madness known as waiting to find …

Read more

Giving thanks

By shay subscriber | February 25, 2010 | 5 Comments

Last night it was a raw rainy night up here in my corner of the world. The kind of night that begs you to look at the simple blessings it’s so easy to take for granted. Things like shelter, heat, a warm cozy bed and someone to snuggle with in that warm cozy bed. How many of us don’t even see …

Read more

Are you a member?

Be in the know. Members gain early access to new posts.

Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

Read more

Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

Read more

Round Up

A curated list of relevant articles & a peek into what Shay's reading

What's Shay Reading?

Members only get a peek into what Shay's reading and wants to share.

Sample Round Up

By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

Member Only Posts

Are you a member?

This content is available to Members Only. If you are already a member, you can upgrade to the next membership level for immediate access to this content.

Sorry, we couldn't find any posts. Please try a different search.

Private Online Community

Are you a member?

This content is available to Members Only.