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Parenting….so very rough. Bad day in Mama land.

By Shay | May 10, 2011 | 5 Comments

Today’s one of those days when to be honest I need to be honest, I am not looking for tips, suggestions or any of that because I can assure you I already know. I just need to give voice to the shit that keeps me up at night. I love my kids, I would die for them, and my son …

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Scenes from a weekend

By Shay | May 10, 2011 | Comments Off on Scenes from a weekend

It’s Monday, my brain is fried but I was a photo snapping fool this weekend. So rather than post nothing let me share a few moments from my weekend. PS: The Spring help a sista raise some cash to spruce this joint up campaign is winding down, please consider giving. Due to some things I am working on, I have …

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The Ambivalence of Mother’s Day…thoughts on the day

By Shay | May 8, 2011 | 1 Comment

Today is Mother’s Day, a day we celebrate and honor the women who in the ideal world not only brought us into the world but also raised us, nurtured us, sustained us and just loved us. It’s a day where the good feelings seem to flow like cocaine at a 1980’s rock party! Yet for some women Mother’s Day is …

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Moving to Maine…the Black Edition Updated for 2016

By Shay | May 6, 2011 | 16 Comments

I originally wrote this post in 2011 back when I had all of 17 readers and most of the them family members. However this post remains one of my most read with requests asking for updated information and in light of a recent comment that was left, I decided to revisit this post.  Lately I have gotten a few inquiries about …

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Unplug and celebrate hump day

By Shay | May 4, 2011 | 3 Comments

Another post that if you are related to me in anyway, ya probably should skip today’s post. If there is one that that I am in this blog, it’s honest. I figure if I am dealing with an issue or concern, chances are I am not the only one. I have very few close friends, my best friend is a …

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Good and busy

By Shay | May 3, 2011 | Comments Off on Good and busy

This is one of those weeks where I am living life at about 90 miles per hour but in many ways, its all good. In my mind I want to sit down and write a meaningful post but the truth is I just don’t have the energy, in light of the death of public enemy #1 there is so much …

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To Bald or not to Bald

By Shay | May 1, 2011 | 9 Comments

This is mature subject matter, its highly advised if you are related to me that you skip reading today’s post since you really don’t need to know everything about your mother, sister, etc…for everyone else, read away! I almost hesitate to write this post but I can’t help thinking I can’t be the only one in this boat and as …

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Played in some dirt

By Shay | May 1, 2011 | 3 Comments

I went out and played in the dirt on my property and look what I found! Smells great, I have no idea what these flowers are but the girl child wanted to bring some in…nature’s air freshener. More dirt play this weekend as we spend time reveling in nature’s gifts. You May Also Like: No related posts.

Royal nuptials or the search for beautiful moments

By Shay | April 29, 2011 | 1 Comment

As the mother of an almost six year old girl who went through a real hot and heavy phase with all things pink and princess, I must admit I have come to loathe the princess shtick. Not because I am an evil curmudgeon but frankly because the princess play of today is very different than when I was a wee …

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Working Mama Blues or maybe it’s me

By Shay | April 28, 2011 | Comments Off on Working Mama Blues or maybe it’s me

I am not trying to start a Mommy War here, let me say right now. If we are women responsible for the care of others, chances are good that we are master ball jugglers. That said I am a woman, a mother and I work for money outside of the home, at times those competing roles threaten to drown me …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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