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Cha..cha…cha…changes

By Shay | August 12, 2011 | 2 Comments

Due to a hectic work schedule, over the next few weeks I will have some fine bloggers helping me out since reality smacked me in the head yesterday and I realized, something has to give. Today’s post is by my partner, also known legally as my husband or as I fondly call him the Spousal Unit. Cha…cha…cha…changes by Deacon Blue …

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Sistas…let’s get positive!

By Shay | August 9, 2011 | Comments Off on Sistas…let’s get positive!

Note, this post is not for the squeamish. I am talking about sex today so feel free to redirect if you are related to me or under 18 or…. I am not a fan of the Oppression Olympics as a general rule, but as an open minded and thinking gal, well sometimes there are exceptions to the rules. I am …

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Saying good-bye

By Shay | August 5, 2011 | 6 Comments

I have a confession that may seem almost startling for a blogger and writer who spends quite a bit of time sharing her life with perfect strangers but I am a pretty solitary gal. What does that mean? It means I have very few people I consider friends, don’t get me wrong I know plenty of people, hell I got …

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Wine, Judgment and Motherhood

By Shay | August 3, 2011 | 8 Comments

Yesterday one of my favorite bloggers tweeted her latest post and when I read it, all I could do was shake my head. Seems that ABC’s Good Morning America featured this piece and well as you can imagine it got folks to talking. In case you don’t feel like clicking or can’t click the piece was on the growing increase …

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Sapphire’s The Kid…will hurt ya soul!

By Shay | August 2, 2011 | Comments Off on Sapphire’s The Kid…will hurt ya soul!

Fifteen years after the release of Push, Sapphire has done it again with another novel that will touch your soul and take it places you can’t even imagine. Now the question is do you want to go there and find out what I think, if you do you can read my review for the Blogher Book club . You May …

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Cash for ya time pretty lady, it’s nothing new

By Shay | August 1, 2011 | Comments Off on Cash for ya time pretty lady, it’s nothing new

Once upon a time, in what now seems like a lifetime ago, I was a 21 year old divorcee with a young child and rather dim prospects for my future. Having made the decision to drop out of high school in the middle of my senior year only to run off and get married only then to end up pregnant …

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A birth story…6 years later

By Shay | July 30, 2011 | 3 Comments

This weekend is my daughter’s sixth birthday, what follows is excerpts from her birth story that I am sharing with her, as such it written to my private audience and not my normal reader. Dear Daughter, Tonight is the last night you will be 5, tomorrow you enter the world of being a six year old girl and I suspect …

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Merging the online and the offline self

By Shay | July 29, 2011 | 1 Comment

Back when I started this blog in 2008, I had no idea what would become of it. I had started writing in 2002 for the state’s largest paper in a now defunct section of the paper called Community Voices where they looked to hear the views of non-native Mainers. After a few stints that were well received I was asked …

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Poor Ronald McDonald the Scapegoat!

By Shay | July 27, 2011 | Comments Off on Poor Ronald McDonald the Scapegoat!

So McDonald’s, the king of cheap, calorie laden, gas inducing (even poop inducing) burgers is going to make the Happy Meal a little less happy and a little more healthy and somehow this is going to help make the children of America a little less obese? Really? Well it seems there are many who feel this is an important step …

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Don’t Touch Me

By Shay | July 27, 2011 | 3 Comments

The following is a repost from July 2010 but in light of all the buzz regarding a certain CNN piece on Black woman and our hair, it still seems pretty relevant. It’s another hot day up here (when will they end?) and I have a long day since I will be taking part in a community forum as part of …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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