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Why connection matters for me…your mileage may vary!

By Shay | May 15, 2012 | 5 Comments

I feel like this is a post where I need to have a disclaimer, this is my personal blog where as I describe in the About Me section “The truth is I am big mouth with an opinion on any and everything.”  For the most part what I write in this space are my personal thoughts and observations about the …

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Nope, guess I won’t be a Skinnygirl…a review

By Shay | May 14, 2012 | 2 Comments

One of the more interesting benefits to blogging is that my inbox is often filled with offers from companies and PR firms looking to get the word out about their products. Truthfully due to the nature of my all-consuming day job and life in general, I tend to say no to reviewing products. It’s hard enough to fit in the …

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Mama, take off your training wheels

By Shay | May 11, 2012 | 3 Comments

Today the mothering community was all in a tizzy after Time magazine’s latest issue came out entitled “Are You Mom Enough” featuring a mom nursing a toddler. The accompanying article is about attachment parenting and the self-appointed Godfather of the attachment parenting movement Dr. Sears. Frankly as someone who for a while was an ardent believer in attachment parent, the …

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Parenting by Facebook, a brave new world

By Shay | May 10, 2012 | 3 Comments

Times are a changing indeed. Back in the 1980’s when I was teenager we thought we were big shit if we had cable TV. I can’t even begin to imagine the trouble I could have brought down upon myself if I had the internet and things like Facebook; luckily I will never know and no one will ever see the …

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Wordless Wednesday…why not!

By Shay | May 9, 2012 | 2 Comments

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A little love for the teachers

By Shay | May 8, 2012 | Comments Off on A little love for the teachers

I am not one generally to acknowledge what I consider to be faux holidays; after all if I did everyday would be a holiday. However this week is Teacher Appreciation Week and today is National Teachers Day. Considering the current climate in the US when it comes to public education and teachers, it seems fitting to think about all the …

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Exploration is okay and you really don’t need 50 Shades

By Shay | May 7, 2012 | 2 Comments

A few weeks I read a piece online that mentioned mommy porn…I was initially like whoa! Then I discovered the piece was discussing a book that apparently many women in my age demographic are losing their minds over, 50 Shades of Grey by British author and mom E.L James. The way this book was described it took me back to …

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Black culture says Black women must be big! Oh really?

By Shay | May 6, 2012 | Comments Off on Black culture says Black women must be big! Oh really?

I have a bone to pick with the mainstream media. It seems whenever they want a Black perspective, they rarely bother to look for balanced views, nope, they get someone whose views frankly are questionable. Despite the plethora of Black voices that are easily accessible thanks to social media, it never fails that half the time when I am reading …

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Be a mom not a robot…it’s okay to be emotional

By Shay | May 4, 2012 | 1 Comment

Last fall I spoke publicly as part of a local series addressed at women called She Speaks, it was a defining moment in that I chose to be very public about my battle with anxiety…anxiety that was acquired over the years starting from childhood where I learned very clearly that sharing emotions was not a good thing. It’s taken a …

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A journey to new selves and a new partnership…

By Shay | May 2, 2012 | 4 Comments

For the past several nights, I have gone to bed and each time was hit with the thought that the smoke has settled and things are going to be okay. The first night I figured I was simply tired but last night it really hit me…things are okay. If you are a new reader to my tales, then you probably …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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