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Activist fatigue and the future of the movement

By Shay | March 22, 2024 | Comments Off on Activist fatigue and the future of the movement

A few days ago, I was on a call with a nationally known movement activist and fellow Black woman who has been in the trenches of the anti-racism movement for as long as me, if not longer. We talked for a while about how, as we find ourselves growing older in this work, our views and approaches to the work …

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Hidden Black women and their greatness, often unrecognized until death—if even then

By Shay | March 8, 2024 | Comments Off on Hidden Black women and their greatness, often unrecognized until death—if even then

“Unfortunately, she exists in a long tradition of Black activist women who die impoverished, who die sick and alone and scared, because we love an activist until they need something.” – Mikki Kendall There is a long tradition of Black women fighting for social justice issues, raising awareness, and essentially spending their lives working to create a better world. Too …

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Social media giveth; social media taketh away

By Shay | February 25, 2024 | Comments Off on Social media giveth; social media taketh away

For the past several months, millions of Americans have had their spirits boosted by a young librarian, Mychal Threets. Mychal is the supervising librarian at Fairfield Civic Center Library in Solano County, Calif., and he became social media (and general media) famous for sharing snippets of his life as a librarian on various platforms. Mychal is a breath of fresh …

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Calling All White People, Part 64: Let’s not center ourselves so much, OK?

By Average White Guy | February 23, 2024 | Comments Off on Calling All White People, Part 64: Let’s not center ourselves so much, OK?

TODAY’S EPISODE: That white (hot) spotlight I’m sure that longtime readers of BGIM here have noticed that I don’t post nearly as much as I used to. Hell, BGIM herself lately mentions “bringing me out of retirement” when she makes note of a new post by me. (And right now she’s visiting family, so I’m trying to fill her posting …

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The cops and anti racists—They are not friends

By Shay | February 17, 2024 | Comments Off on The cops and anti racists—They are not friends

The past couple of weeks have been an emotional and mental whirlwind as I navigate the aftermath of unexpectedly putting myself in the crosshairs of a rabid racist. I have been writing about race and racism in Maine and beyond since 2003, and while there have been times when I have written pieces where I fully expected blowback and harassment, …

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When Black History Month becomes Black Harassment Month

By Shay | February 13, 2024 | Comments Off on When Black History Month becomes Black Harassment Month

It was over a decade ago that I received my first invitation to keynote an event for Black History Month. If memory serves, it was a UU Church in Kennebunk, Maine. At that time, Americans of all hues were awakening to the painful reality that despite having our first Black president, injustice still ran rampant when it came to Black …

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The audacity of racism

By Shay | February 5, 2024 | 2 Comments

Mohammed Albehadli was the diversity, equity and inclusion (DEI) coordinator for the South Portland School Department when he received a racist email in December 2023 from Ryan Murdough, the New Hampshire founder of the New England White Network. The email has been described as threatening and, according to published reports, South Portland schools Superintendent Timothy Matheney described the letter as …

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Life is what happens when you are busy making other plans

By Shay | January 19, 2024 | Comments Off on Life is what happens when you are busy making other plans

Twenty years ago, when my mother died, I read John Lennon’s famous quote, “Life is what happens when you are busy making other plans.” It struck me hard enough that I put it in the signature line of my emails. It’s one of those quotes that is a very real truism: We make plans, but life often has its own …

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DEI isn’t enough, or maybe it should DIE

By Shay | January 8, 2024 | 1 Comment

A few weeks ago, Elon Musk tweeted on X that “DEI must DIE.” Generally, I ignore anything that Musk says—after all, it’s not like we share similar ideologies about, well, anything. The thing is, that tweet stirred something in me that I had to sit with. Upon deeper reflection, I actually agree with him—just not for the same reasons and …

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Change is a long game; pace yourself

By Shay | January 3, 2024 | Comments Off on Change is a long game; pace yourself

This month, I will be quietly celebrating my 10th anniversary as executive director of Community Change Inc. No small feat, as we are one of the oldest anti-racism organizations in the United States—founded in 1968, at a time when the United States was in racial turmoil. Our founding was the direct result of the Kerner Commission Report, which found that …

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It’s already happening: Whites only

By Shay | November 13, 2025

The official end of Jim Crow in the United States happened between 1965 and 1968. Congress passed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and in 1965, they passed the Voting Rights Act, and then in 1968, the Fair Housing Act. These efforts effectively ended Jim Crow in the United States, though the lingering racial animosity …

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It’s already happening: Whites only

By Shay | November 13, 2025

The official end of Jim Crow in the United States happened between 1965 and 1968. Congress passed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and in 1965, they passed the Voting Rights Act, and then in 1968, the Fair Housing Act. These efforts effectively ended Jim Crow in the United States, though the lingering racial animosity …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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