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Midlife Changes

A glimpse of midlife and setting fire to my life…musings at 42

May 23, 2017January 30, 2015 by Shay

Even a dedicated racial justice professional needs a break from a steady diet of racial injustice. My recent birthday has provided me with the opportunity to step back and reflect on my life. This post is a result of some of my reflections, so if you prefer the race talks, you may want to skip …

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Categories Growing Up, Midlife Changes, personal growth 7 Comments

I am a raggedy and broken person in a raggedy and broken world

May 23, 2017October 17, 2014 by Shay

I have spent the last 18 years of my life working for social change, from community organizing and working with the homeless in Chicago to eventually heading organizations in Maine and now Boston. The work isn’t glamorous, the pay is a joke but knowing that I was doing something to help make this broken world …

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Categories Midlife Changes, personal growth 5 Comments

The cosmic shifts of the 40’s or the ballad of middle age

May 23, 2017October 13, 2014 by Shay

These are strange times that we are living in; if one were to follow the narratives carried out in popular media it would be easy to assume that by the time one reaches their 40’s they have figured out the meaning of life and they are flying high and filled with confidence. Rarely do I …

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Categories Midlife Changes Tags finding ourselves, mid life crisis 1 Comment
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