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Wishing tortures to Happy People one freshly baked microwave cake at a time

July 26, 2020 by Guest Poster

Today’s post is from guest contributor Liz Henry Back when I was really depressed, happy people made me want to die. They did not inspire me to redirect my thoughts or look at my can of Diet Coke as half-full. The only thing happy people inspired in me were new ways I could torture them. …

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Categories Commentary, Life, Mental Health, Random babble

Reclaiming my time; saying ‘yes’ to me

August 6, 2018 by Shay
Silhouette view from behind of person in a cross-legged sitting position meditating on a deck in view of a pretty sunlit landscape

It ain’t easy being a Black woman. Never has been. But I guess I figured we wouldn’t have to still be working this hard just to stay behind, no matter how much education and how many skills we bring to so many tables. For every dollar that a white man makes, a Black woman earns …

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Categories Commentary, Life, Mental Health, Parenting, personal growth, Racial and Cultural 1 Comment

Healing my heart: A quest for love

June 23, 2018February 18, 2018 by LaLa Drew

Allowing the heart to open up and let in the love that is offered from the world and the people who occupy it is a constant practice. I am a person with a fortress of walls. I have dragons and moats and oubliettes. People often get eaten by the dragons, drown in the moats and …

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Categories Life, Mental Health, personal growth, Relationships 4 Comments
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