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The cruelty is the point

By Shay | March 6, 2025 | Comments Off on The cruelty is the point

“And now, they are coming for your Social Security money. They want your f*cking retirement money. They want it back, so they can give it to their criminal friends on Wall Street.” — George Carlin It has long been said that the late comedian George Carlin was a prophet when it came to matters of the social conditions of the …

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Behind the boycott: Integrity matters (or, Don’t get played in the name of resistance)

By Shay | March 1, 2025 | 2 Comments

Every day, more Americans start to realize that the gnawing sense of unease living daily in the pits of their stomachs is the embodied realization that things in our country are going very poorly. That our country no longer is the same nation it was before the Inauguration and that we are, in fact, living in the middle of a …

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Faith, not fear

By Shay | February 24, 2025 | Comments Off on Faith, not fear

How much time have you spent doomscrolling since Inauguration Day? Are you getting a daily dose of doom from your favorite purveyors of doom? Have you had a hard time feeling relaxed in the last month? Are your shoulders up near your ears, with a side of tension pain? If you answered yes to any of these questions, congratulations! You …

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Grassroots resistance at a different level: Mills vs. Trump

By Shay | February 22, 2025 | Comments Off on Grassroots resistance at a different level: Mills vs. Trump

In a fairly confined space, surrounded by a lot of other governors who either fear or idolize Donald Trump, Maine Gov. Janet Mills was openly defiant toward the would-be king Donnie. This is not an easy thing. A U.S. president can be intimidating under the best of circumstances, and these aren’t the best circumstances because Trump is unhinged and largely …

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Calling All White People, Part 67: This isn’t the Gen X showing I asked for

By Average White Guy | February 15, 2025 | Comments Off on Calling All White People, Part 67: This isn’t the Gen X showing I asked for

Calling All White People, Part 67 TODAY’S EPISODE: Gen X finally gets noticed—in a very bad way You know, it wasn’t that long ago that me and my fellow members of Generation X were shaking our heads at how news stories would come out with the opinions or leanings of various generations, and so often Gen X would literally not …

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Surviving the unthinkable or, A hostile takeover

By Shay | February 9, 2025 | Comments Off on Surviving the unthinkable or, A hostile takeover

We are living in deeply unsettling and downright scary times. For younger Americans, particularly those of us under 60, we have never experienced anything like what is going on in our country. Despite knowing what was possible under a second Trump term, to see progress that we assumed would last forever being brutally, systematically, and illegally being rolled back is …

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Have a good cry; we have work to do

By Shay | February 2, 2025 | Comments Off on Have a good cry; we have work to do

It has been almost 21 years since my mother died and I still remember that night as if it were yesterday. My mother was in a nursing home after brain surgery had taken a turn for the worse. It was the early 00s and cell phone technologies weren’t what they are now. My father had been trying to reach me …

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Yep, we are in the danger zone: Thoughts on organizing

By Shay | January 27, 2025 | 2 Comments

As someone who was diagnosed with hypertension almost two years ago, part of me maintaining healthy blood pressure is to do a home check several times a week and keep track of it. I’m on the lowest dose of hypertension medication possible, a choice I made to force me to stay compliant with the changes I had been making—but that …

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Get ready, get grounded—he’s back

By Shay | January 19, 2025 | Comments Off on Get ready, get grounded—he’s back

As I write this, there are less than 24 hours before Donald Trump returns to the Oval Office and already the American people are starting to experience the familiar roller coaster ride known as President Trump. Saturday night, TikTok turned off the lights, so to speak, leaving 170 million-plus Americans in the dark as they logged onto TikTok only to …

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Fear as fuel for change

By Shay | January 14, 2025 | Comments Off on Fear as fuel for change

A few nights ago, my 19-year-old daughter asked me if I was scared about the incoming Trump administration. I told her that while I am fearful, I am doing my best to not be consumed by fear. While we survived the first Trump, I suspect this second term is going to be far more turbulent. Our conversation made me think …

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It’s already happening: Whites only

By Shay | November 13, 2025

The official end of Jim Crow in the United States happened between 1965 and 1968. Congress passed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and in 1965, they passed the Voting Rights Act, and then in 1968, the Fair Housing Act. These efforts effectively ended Jim Crow in the United States, though the lingering racial animosity …

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It’s already happening: Whites only

By Shay | November 13, 2025

The official end of Jim Crow in the United States happened between 1965 and 1968. Congress passed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and in 1965, they passed the Voting Rights Act, and then in 1968, the Fair Housing Act. These efforts effectively ended Jim Crow in the United States, though the lingering racial animosity …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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