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Acting and Talking White

By shay subscriber | July 7, 2008 | Comments Off on Acting and Talking White

I was reading at another blog today and the issue of acting white came up, I gotta laugh because most of my life I have been labeled by my extended family as acting white. Truthfully when I was young, I probably did go through a phase where I was acting white, I went to predominantly white schools, up until I was …

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Black Fatherhood

By shay subscriber | July 6, 2008 | Comments Off on Black Fatherhood

The idea for this post has been in the back of my mind since Father’s Day when my Dad left me a short sweet message. ” Hey, its the Ole Man, I got your message, thank-you. I hope I have been a decent father over the years, I made a lot of mistakes but I did the best I could.” …

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A Tale of Two Beaches.. Pt 2 Holiday Weekend

By shay subscriber | July 5, 2008 | 1 Comment

Another 4th of July has come and gone, I have now been to the beach two times in the past 2 days, so I thought I would share some tales from the beach with you. Yesterday the fam and I decided to go to the local resort beach town, just south of my little coastal hamlet. The town in question …

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Its a holiday or is it.. Pt 1

By shay subscriber | July 4, 2008 | Comments Off on Its a holiday or is it.. Pt 1

Well its the eve of the 4th of July which here in Maine in my little coastal town means we are flooded with tourists or as I like to call em terrorists. Summer is the nicest time of year in Maine, it lasts all of a month maybe 2 and sadly we have to share it with folks who come from …

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Dogs and Mainers Pt 2.. Tolerance and White Folks

By shay subscriber | July 2, 2008 | Comments Off on Dogs and Mainers Pt 2.. Tolerance and White Folks

In case you haven’t figured out this is a pretty new blog, I started it initally in January with the idea of tying it into my other writing and projects, and then promptly put it on the back burner. Then a few weeks ago decided to give it another try. In the past few days, I have gotten a lot …

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The High Price of gas

By shay subscriber | July 2, 2008 | Comments Off on The High Price of gas

As I said in my initial post and in my description for this blog, my ramblings while mostly related to being a Black woman in Maine, will sometimes just be random ramblings. Today is one of those days, I was just reading a piece online about how more Americans are less concerned about conservation and the environment now that gas prices …

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Get your hands away from hair, fascination with Black hair

By shay subscriber | July 1, 2008 | Comments Off on Get your hands away from hair, fascination with Black hair

In living in Maine for the past 6 years, there is still one thing that pisses me off and while I know it may seem petty and small of me but the fact is it just pisses me off. I hate when people attempt to touch my hair, when I first landed here I had about 4 inches of hair …

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Fear in Maine- Raising Black boys

By shay subscriber | June 29, 2008 | Comments Off on Fear in Maine- Raising Black boys

Elder child aka the boy is home for the summer from his Papa’s house (aka the ex-spousal unit) and as always the first few days of him being home are an adjustment for me since having another member of the opposite sex in my domain always tends to throw me off momentarily. This year though things are different for me, see …

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Dogs and Mainers.. they really love their dogs

By shay subscriber | June 27, 2008 | 6 Comments

In case you didn’t know, Maine is a very white state, I believe its only second to Vermont as far as the whiteness factor. Now, when a sista decided to move here 6 years ago, I knew it was white but I figured what the hell, I already own one white person (aka spousal unit) and despite growing up in Chicago …

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Roots of anger start young

By shay subscriber | June 25, 2008 | 4 Comments

Yesterday, I was out with my almost 3 year old daughter and witnessed a rather interesting incident that only reconfirmed to me that the roots of Black anger as it relates to sistas and the fact that the anger starts young. The girl and I were having one of our Momma and me times at a local cafe here in our small …

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It’s already happening: Whites only

By Shay | November 13, 2025

The official end of Jim Crow in the United States happened between 1965 and 1968. Congress passed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and in 1965, they passed the Voting Rights Act, and then in 1968, the Fair Housing Act. These efforts effectively ended Jim Crow in the United States, though the lingering racial animosity …

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It’s already happening: Whites only

By Shay | November 13, 2025

The official end of Jim Crow in the United States happened between 1965 and 1968. Congress passed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and in 1965, they passed the Voting Rights Act, and then in 1968, the Fair Housing Act. These efforts effectively ended Jim Crow in the United States, though the lingering racial animosity …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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