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By Shay | October 4, 2011 | 5 Comments

I am often told by well-meaning and kind people that maybe I should consider cutting back on how much of my life I share, at least online. Just a few days ago, a tweep (twitter follower for those who don’t use twitter) suggested I make my account private. I admit there are moments when I think to myself, maybe I …

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When Mommy Bloggers Fail, and Babble is just Bad

By Shay | October 3, 2011 | 18 Comments

As a woman who happens to be a mother and also a blogger, I rarely refer to myself as a mom blogger and suggest if you want to stay on my good side you never refer to me as a Mom blogger either. Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against so called mom bloggers, there are some good ones …

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A Brave New World Where We all get Left Behind

By Shay | September 29, 2011 | 1 Comment

In this uber connected 24/7 world we are living in, those of us that use social media either for professional or personal reasons often forget that not everyone else plugs in like we do. While a large swatch of Americans have access to the internet, that does not mean everyone who does is tweeting, Facebooking, Google Plusing and thinking about …

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Women Talk…The sexy or not so sexy pot

By Shay | September 28, 2011 | 7 Comments

One of my all-time favorite films is Pulp Fiction, I admit I am a pretty big Quentin Tarantino fan…can’t explain it. In Pulp Fiction there are a few lines by a minor character Fabienne that when I saw movie 20 years ago, didn’t really register but as I grow into a chick of a certain age, these lines totally resonate. …

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Whose job is it to help?

By Shay | September 26, 2011 | 5 Comments

When I decided some 15-16 years ago I wanted to work in the social services sector, I was still a pretty idealistic 20-something year old. Granted my own path had been rocky, after all I was married at 18, a mum by 19 and headed towards divorce court by 20 but in that idealistic way that is a defining trait …

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Friendships & Race…Black Women & White Women 2011 edition

By Shay | September 23, 2011 | 4 Comments

Today’s post is a repost from July 9, 2008…funny because this topic was on my mind today and before I sat down to write a post, I decided to look it up. That said, while some things I mention in this post are clearly not as relevant today, many still are as I find myself lamenting that back in 2008 …

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A Vivid Visit to Faithful Place…Book Review

By Shay | September 23, 2011 | Comments Off on A Vivid Visit to Faithful Place…Book Review

Sorry to interrupt the flow of normal programming but time to promote my latest book review for the Blogher Book Club. Sure, on the face of it, Tana French’s Faithful Place is a crime novel, mystery novel, thriller… whatever your preferred term. There is a death that starts things rolling (although it is an old murder) and there is a …

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Not a just world but we can change it

By Shay | September 22, 2011 | Comments Off on Not a just world but we can change it

Like millions last night, I waited to see if justice would be served in the case of Troy Davis, instead as we would all learn after a three hour reprieve while the United States Supreme Court met on the matter, we would all learn for Troy there would be no justice. Instead at 11:08 pm Eastern Daylight Time, Troy would …

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Just living

By Shay | September 22, 2011 | Comments Off on Just living

My heart is heavy tonight as we await to hear word whether Troy Davis will live or die…not really in a great space so I just share a few shots of my life over the past few days. Just living life. You May Also Like: No related posts.

Progressive America, you used to be beautiful

By Shay | September 19, 2011 | 4 Comments

Guess you could say there is a theme this week here at BGIM land. That theme would be how Average Jane and Joe used to be able to go to their average job and be assured that if they put in 40 hours working for the boss, the boss paid them a decent wage, provided access to healthcare and even …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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Critique and activism: People getting prickly about No Kings

By Shay | March 27, 2026

As the United States prepares for another No Kings Rally on March 28, emotions online are running high as seasoned organizers—many of them Black and Brown folks—express hesitation that another national rally will do much to move the needle on our current conditions in the United States. In turn, many white-bodied people are feeling prickly …

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By Shay | May 29, 2022

Happy Friday! It’s a gorgeous day up in my corner of the world and way too beautiful to be writing a blog post today. So I present you with the Friday Round-Up a list of blog posts this week from other bloggers that blew my mind. Perhaps if you need to kill some time or have a quiet moment you can check them out. http://ravingblacklunatic.blogspot.com/ Check out this cat, I have been a fan of his work forever. http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/ Good stuff here as well http://sweetersalt.com/ A Maine blogger who talks fashion and food…the best of both worlds http://paganchild-starmommy.blogspot.com/2011/03/keeping-focused.html A new blog that offers words of wisdom for all of us. http://mscleaver.com/ Another Mainer who for Lent is giving up pants, she is also a crafty gal If you have any links to good blogs, feel free to leave em. It’s my hope to make the Friday Round Up a regular feature at my new home specifically I would live to shine some light and love on smaller bloggers. It’s hard out here in this blogosphere with so many good blogs to choose from and so little time so let’s help everyone get a slice of the pie. I will be back on Monday, at that time I will unveil some ideas I have around monetizing things but You May Also Like: No related posts.

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