Pretty…oh so pretty!

Like so many women, I have a tendency to be pretty damn hard on myself. Lately I have taken to excessively worrying about my neck and laugh lines, going so far as to contemplate the merits of Botox, something I swore I would never do. My beloved Spousal Unit tries his best to lift me …

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Say no to drama, get selfish!

I had one of those moments today when I realized that I have had a major internal shift and despite how it sounds on the surface, I couldn’t be happier. I have become selfish, let me repeat that…I have become selfish. I am a recovering people pleaser, for years I was that “friend” you knew …

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Me and Deacon Blue

Sometimes here in BGIM land, my mind is swarming with ideas but they need to sit and just simmer…today is one of those times. Ever since I was a wee lass I have been a Steely Dan fan, I am sure it helps that my parents were big Steely Dan fans. Hands down my favorite …

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