Long time readers of this space know that I lost my mom a number of years ago. I am down to one parent who stands between me becoming the family elder… a role that I am not ready for at this time. A couple of years ago, we thought we might lose my dad but my dad is the cat with nine lives. He cheats death and has outlived his wife, my beloved mother, as well as a good chunk of family members and far exceeded the expectations of healthcare professionals. A walking medical miracle.
Unfortunately my father has taken ill and we are once again hoping that he will continue his winning streak and keep winning at this game of life. However he is ill enough that I am headed home to Chicago. Considering that I bought a one-way ticket to my original home, I have no idea what we are facing or how long I will be there, so until I am back home in Maine and working with a clear head, blogging is suspended for the moment. If you are the praying type, I welcome your prayers as I walk this journey as the child of an aging adult…a most precarious place to be.
Until we meet again…
Black Girl in Maine aka Shay
I’m going to miss you but I understand you have to take care of your father. Praying for you!
Glad that you can go. My thoughts are with you. Your dad is fortunate to have you and I hope you will still have him for a long time to come.
My prayers and thoughts go with you.
Take care, Shay, my thoughts and those of many more, I’m sure, are with you!
A journey that many, many Americans now undertake as they seek to care not only for their elders but for their younger family members. Just Good speed and G*d speed on your own journey ! VFH
You are in my thoughts. Take care of yourself. All the best to you and your father. <3
Love and Prayers for you all.
Life just keeps coming at you. Jeepers. Hoping you will find some time to reconnect with friends there who can give you some support. My best to you and your dad.
love and prayers
may you face his (and your own) suffering with courage, caring, and kindness
I’m the “praying type,” and will pray for your father and for you.