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Midlife Changes

Musings from the life of a forty something or my wants no longer matter

May 23, 2017March 14, 2014 by Shay

For the past several months, my body has started to remind me of my early teen years when I was clearly entering puberty. Except that at 41, I am pretty sure this isn’t midlife puberty.  Hell, depending on who I am talking to, it’s debatable whether or not I am even middle aged yet! Though …

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Categories Midlife Changes 4 Comments

When mama just isn’t domestic…a confession and a revelation

May 23, 2017December 12, 2013 by Shay

Growing up in the 70s and 80s, I had no idea at the time how “different” my family was; in my mind we were just a normal family.  Of course being Black and working class, what exactly does it even mean to be normal? My Mom spent most of my childhood being a housewife (I …

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Categories Feminism/Womanism, Midlife Changes, personal growth 1 Comment

Growing up and what no one tells you or midlife is messy

May 23, 2017October 21, 2013 by Shay

When I was a younger woman, I used to be a fan of making lists and having a plan for my life. Somehow believing that if I could reduce my life down to a neat and orderly checklist that I would stay on task and that I was actually an adult, but life often does …

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