Umm, please don’t sit…and other thoughts on activism

A tattered-looking triangular street sign like a yield sign, but with an exclamation point on it

Earlier this week, I found myself in a conversation with my ex-husband and, as longtime readers know, we have an amicable relationship. He’s still my emergency contact and over the years he has played a pivotal role in helping me develop Black Girl in Maine. We were discussing the constitutional crisis and the overall political …

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Beyond our fear: It’s time

Length of chain backlit by the sun

Everyone has something that they are scared of. For me, it’s big dogs and driving. Those are my two last remaining fears that for many sound silly, but they aren’t silly to me. When I was eight years old, I was almost attacked by a loose German Shepherd and that incident created a deep and …

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Pride and Juneteenth: Cognitive dissonance

silhouette of woman raising fist in victory backlit by the sun

The beginning of June, the beginning of Pride—and Juneteenth happens this month as well. In recent years, these events were cause for celebration as we acknowledge and celebrate the LGBTQ+ community as well as celebrating Black liberation. However, at this moment, we find ourselves in a very different reality than a year ago, as the …

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