Decency, who decides? Thoughts on 1 man, 10 ladies and 11 kids

Very few people realize that I am a preacher’s kid otherwise known as a PK. Jokes and stereotypes abound about PK’s and there probably is a bit of truth in them. The funny thing is my Dad spent most of my childhood spiritually searching, but never really straying far from his Southern Baptist roots. Often …

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Happy Festivus

Every year I am inspired to celebrate Festivus because frankly while I love to celebrate the birth of Jesus, all the other aspects of Christmas annoy me. Sadly no one in my clan will play along with me. So, I get no opportunity to air my grievances and while I thought about writing a public …

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The gift of holding the space

  A few days ago, a fellow writer that I have nothing but the greatest respect for was having a bad day. My natural inclination as a “helper” and problem solver is to try to “help” but I quickly realized that not all problems need to be fixed. Sometimes when people are venting, they just …

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