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The cosmic shifts of the 40’s or the ballad of middle age

May 23, 2017October 13, 2014 by Shay

These are strange times that we are living in; if one were to follow the narratives carried out in popular media it would be easy to assume that by the time one reaches their 40’s they have figured out the meaning of life and they are flying high and filled with confidence. Rarely do I …

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Categories Midlife Changes Tags finding ourselves, mid life crisis 1 Comment

Life on the intersection of class and the shame

May 23, 2017September 26, 2014 by Shay

In a nation with growing income inequality, we rarely seem to talk about what that means on a personal and lived level. Instead we all call ourselves middle class never commenting on the fact that today’s middle class includes people in well heeled communities earning more than $150,000 a year as well as families scraping …

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Categories class, personal growth, Poverty 2 Comments

Loving across racial lines…what isn’t spoken

May 23, 2017September 15, 2014 by Shay

This fall will mark 20 years that I have been partnered with my husband, we’ve been together 20 years and married for 17 of those years. We met in our 20’s, when we were young and idealistic and even though my previous partner had been white, I had no idea that race on the cusp …

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Categories Current Events Tags Daniele Watts, interracial relationships 14 Comments
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