Tending to our gardens: Stress and burnout

extreme closeup of the red-hot portion of a log burning down soon to its final embers

Several days ago, I received an impassioned plea via Instagram to use my platform to talk more about what is happening to the Palestinians at the hands of the Israeli military. My initial response was one of irritation at being asked once again to do something in addition to all I’m already doing and, in …

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An anti-racist midlife crisis

Extreme closeup of a car dashboard, showing an illuminated "check engine" light

Last year, when I met a man almost 11 years younger than me—whom I fell in love with—I took to joking that our relationship was my “midlife crisis.” After all, it fit the stereotype of a divorced middle-aged woman—just one of those “cougars.” I would later realize that he was definitely not my midlife crisis. …

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