Discomfort and exiting your silo is a must

Four tall gray silo structures, in a line, viewed from below at a steep angle, with a lightly clouded blue sky above them

I recently attended a dear friend’s 50th birthday party and it was one of the most memorable nights I have had in years. This friend is a white woman with a multiracial family, and her friend and professional groups are reflective of the diversity in her family. As a 50-something-year-old Black woman living in Maine, …

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Have white women really changed?

Two women's arms raised in a two-finger salute, viewed from behind with the back of a blonde woman's head blurred but visible, against the backdrop of a blue and lightly clouded sky

Unless one is a die-hard contrarian or MAGA type, most white-bodied people live in abject fear of being labeled a racist or coming across as a racist. For some white folks, being labeled as a racist is more hurtful than unpacking the fact that perhaps they do actually hold some racist and harmful views or …

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